"Loving the right person at the wrong time, having the wrong person when the time is right, and finding out you love someone right after that person walks out of your life...
Sometimes, you think you're already over a person, But when you see them smile at you, you'll suddenly realize that you're just pretending to be over them just to ease the pain of knowing that they will never be yours again...
For some, they think that letting go is one way of expressing how much you love the person...
Some are afraid to see the one they love being held by someone else... Most relationships tend to fail not because the absence of love - love is always present. It's just that one was being loved too much and the other was being loved too little...
As we all know the heart is the center of the body but it beats on the left. Maybe that's the reason why the heart is not always right...
Most often, we fall in love with the person we think we love but to only discover that for them, we are just for past times, while the one who truly loves us remains either a friend or a stranger...
So here's a piece of advice: Let go when you're hurting too much. Give up when love isn't enough, and move on when things are not like before... For sure, there is someone out there who will love you even more..."
Bella, thank you for sharing your beautiful thoughts. I love the way you write. I agree, many times one person loves the other more..sad but true. For me, I find if I just let go of the hurt & let myself love again it is wonderful. Doesnt always last but that's ok too. It's the reason, season, lifetime thing. I've learned a lot from past relationships & I've realized the impact of things I've done wrong because of insecurity or whatever. My current friendships & relationships are much better off from me growing from past ones. Love is all that matters. Let go, be free & LOVE.
Posted by: Bridget | September 29, 2010 at 02:22 PM
Well said Bella......ps LOVE your blog :-)
Posted by: CatHerder | October 03, 2010 at 04:26 AM
You said a mouthful there! So true all of it. You have an old soul?
Posted by: Rhonda P. | October 12, 2010 at 06:32 PM